A BDSM Dating App Where Fun and Fantasies Collide

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Our Sexy Fetish Dating App Makes Wild Dreams Come True

Why BDSM lovers are choosing our app

When it comes to wild fantasies, we're home to fearless hearts and bold thrill-seekers! Flirtini is your go-to dating platform to meet doms, subs, and everything in between. Our community of over 1 million users makes it easier than ever to explore BDSM and kinks.

A transparent community of kink lovers

Kinks are great, but we want you to know what you're getting into. Flirtini is proud of the honest and open community we've built. Our users are open about their bdsm and kinks, so you know what to get right from the start!

Kink lovers and heightened security

Kinks and BDSM can be sensitive topics. We get that. We're committed to keeping your data secure when you use Flirtini. Our 6 stages of security are designed to eliminate fakes, trolls, and scam accounts. This means less time worrying and more time exploring your sexy fantasies

Match, Play, and Explore the Go-to App for Doms and Subs

Create Your Profile

Kinksters, ready to enter the BDSM playground? Upload some great photos and complete your bio. To attract the best matches, craft a bio that highlights the kinks and fetishes you're into. Remember, Flirtini is a community that values transparency!

Browse and Match

As you browse and match, we're continually improving your feed. Flirtini's matchmaker uses your swiping preferences and behavior to send more suitable matches to you. The more you swipe, the better we get at sending you like-minded BDSM and kink lovers!

Chat and Hookup

When you chat, it's important to learn about the other person. Learn about their fetishes, their quirks, and their boundaries. If you feel there's chemistry and potential, decide together and explore your kinkiest fantasies. Don't forget about us when you're having the sexiest time of your life!

The Easier, Better Dating App for Kinks

AI features that make kink talk easier than ever

Flirtini is one of the only dating apps with not one but two AI features. The reason? We're a platform designed to be more fun and less headache. Our AI assistant offers real-time advice. Better yet, it can generate pickup lines, kinky ice breakers, and more right from our platform.

Customization for better kinky sex

Kink and BDSM are deeply personal experiences and require a sense of vulnerability. To reach this stage, it's essential that you're authentic and personal. Luckily, we make this customization easy! For instance, our platform allows users to set customizable themes to add a personal touch to each chat room. We also allow users to send story boosts to show instant interest in one or some of your matches.

Make that first impression matter

On any app, a user's photos can greatly impact their ability to make a strong first impression. So, let's make sure your photos go from okay to great! One of our unique in-app features is our photo beautification filters. With a single tap, you can highlight your best features and minimize your insecurities all at once.

Our role in safe and secure BDSM hookups

Flirting and sex talk can't be enjoyable if it doesn't feel safe—it's as simple as that. That's why Flirtini is committed to taking proactive measures to ensure user safety. We use a 6-step security system to remove scammers and fakes before they cause any problems. Only verified and approved accounts can view your profile, meaning that your data stays safe on our app.

Here's everything we do to keep you and your account safe:

User feedback loop with incentives to report and flag accounts
24/7 AI moderation tools to identify scammers
AI algorithms to detect potential fake accounts
24/7 manual review team with expert moderators
Feature to automate the recognition and blurring of explicit photos
In-app and blog content about digital safety and in-person safety

Explore Our Kinky Community and Meet BDSM Lovers

BDSM lovers, you've found your home! Today, more people are embracing kink and BDSM culture than ever before. Our Flirtini community is 1 million users strong, and we're growing by the day. We're proud to have created a space where people feel comfortable enough to put themselves out there. BDSM culture is not something to be ashamed of, and we are dedicated to providing that safe space for those who are interested.

Olivia20 min

Maya16 min

Emma28 min

Ethan26 min

Emma23 min

Sophia24 min

Alexander27 min

Zoe5 min

James15 min

Liam13 min

Olivia

27+

Chicago

Fitness fanatic 💪

Interests

💪 Workout
🏃‍♀️ Running
🍜 Foodie
📸 Photography
🎵 Music

Maya

26+

San Francisco

Do you know what goes well with a sunrise yoga session? Good company! 🧘‍♀️ Seeking a zen partner who enjoys early mornings and peaceful vibes.

Interests

🧘‍♀️ Yoga
🌱 Gardening
📸 Photography
🍜 Foodie
🎵 Music

Emma

25+

Los Angeles

Have you ever been in London?

Interests

📚 Reading
✍️ Writing
📸 Photography
🍜 Foodie
✈️ Travel

Ethan

30+

San Francisco

Marketing executive. Seeking someone real, no superficial relationships.

Interests

🍽️ Restaurants

Emma

28+

Boston

Life's too short for bad coffee and boring books.

Interests

☕️ Coffee
📚 Reading
📸 Photography
✈️ Travel
🍽️ Restaurants

Sophia

23+

Denver

Let's get lost in a good movie and argue about whether the book was better. Spoiler alert: the book usually wins!

Interests

🎬 Movies
📚 Reading
✍️ Writing
🍜 Foodie
🎵 Music

Alexander

29+

Chicago

Architect. Not interested in high-maintenance individuals.

Interests

🏛️ Architecture
✈️ Travel
🎨 Art
🍜 Foodie
🎬 Movies

Zoe

27+

Seattle

Let's get fit and eat well together!

Interests

🏃‍♀️ Running
💪 Workout
🍽️ Restaurants
🌲 Hiking
📸 Photography

James

27+

Seattle

Photographer. No time for games, looking for something genuine.

Interests

📸 Photography
✈️ Travel
🥾 Hiking
🍜 Foodie
🎬 TV Show

Liam

28+

New York

Looking for a genuine connection for a fun night. No drama, just good vibes.

Interests

💻 Tech
🥾 Hiking
📚 Reading
🍽️ Restaurants
🎬 Movies

Frequently asked questions

Is there an app for dom sub relationships?

Yes, several apps cater to dom-sub dynamics within BDSM. Dom-sub relationships are complex, so it's important to seek a dating app that caters to transparent, open communication. This is both for safety as well as overall satisfaction.

What does kinky mean on dating apps?

"Kinky" in dating usually means an interest in fetish, BDSM, and non-traditional sexual practices. Fetishes range widely, with some of the most common fetishes including roleplay, bondage, and leather play.

How safe is Flirtini?

Flirtini prioritizes user safety with features like profile verification and secure messaging. We're one of the only fetish dating apps with a 6-step verification system. Our team combines automation with human expertise to take a proactive approach to user security and safety.

Is there an app to explore kinks?

Yes, various dating apps allow users to explore kinks and fetishes. Some apps appeal to specific kinks, while others are for the broader BDSM community. Flirtini is designed for the broader BDSM community, welcoming both newcomers and experienced users alike.

Is Flirtini a real app?

Yup! Flirtini is a real app and we're available on IOS and Android! With over 30,000+ reviews, we're modernizing and simplifying the dating scene. We're proud of the diverse community we've built and would love for you to join us!

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Stay Ahead with Real Tips and Tricks for Better Dating

Our blog is full of real-life dating advice that’s easy to follow and useful for anyone, whether you're looking for something casual or a little more serious. We cover everything from fun date ideas to tips on crafting the perfect profile. Our simple and practical tips can help you navigate the dating scene with confidence. No fluff, just straightforward advice you can actually use. Ready to up your dating game?

Stay Ahead with Real Tips and Tricks for Better Dating

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