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Why Flirtini is the #1 Dating App for Older Women

We're a straightforward dating app that draws in cougars who are ready to date or hook up. Our no-frills design keeps things simple and has appealed to over 1 million active users–including thousands of cougars in your area. Cubs, we're the destination for you!

One of the big reasons we're no-frills is because of our transparent community. Whether you're looking to date or hookup, our users don't play games regarding their wants. You can leave the guesswork behind and build genuine connections with mature women in our dating app!

Whether it's for a cub, a cougar, or a milf, Flirtini is dedicated to creating a safe and secure dating app for all singles. Our 6 stages of security are designed to keep user data safe and reduce encounters with fakes and scammers.

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Create Your Profile

The first step to meeting a cougar is setting up your profile. Don't worry. It only takes a few minutes! Upload some of your best photos, and be sure to complete your profile.

Browse and Match

Now, it's time to browse and match! As you swipe, we'll fine-tune our suggestions based on your behavior and preferences. In other words, the more you swipe–the better our AI matchmakers get at matching you with your ideal cougar or milf!

Chat and Hookup

The last and final step is to build a spark and see if there's real chemistry! When the time comes, decide and have an open dialogue about what each of you wants. You can then decide to meet for a first date or skip right to a steamy hookup session.

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A Cougar Dating App Fueled by Fun and Flirty Features

Charm mature women with AI

Interested in meeting a cougar but don't have the experience? Flirtini's AI tools can come to your rescue! Flirtini is one of the only dating apps with two robust AI features.

First, there's our AI assistant. This assistant offers dating advice, flirty jokes, and interesting icebreakers as you chat in real-time. Second, there's Flirty Mate. She's our very own AI feature designed to mimic real conversations. You can use Flirty Mate to simulate a chat with a cougar or milf, and get practice with no risk.

Make every chat personalized

We've seen what our cougar and milf users value–it's personalization! There's nothing more intimate than personalized and tailored messages when it comes to mature women.

On our app, you can make every chat personalized with custom chat themes and story boosts. Custom themes let users match the energy of a chat with a unique theme, while story boosts let other users know you're super interested in them.

Leave your mark with an unresistible

We're the only app that wants things to work out for you and the cougar or milf of your dreams. Of course, this means nailing that first impression! One way to make a memorable first impression is to use our in-app photo beautification filters. In seconds, you can highlight your best features and reduce your insecurities. In only a few clicks, let our filters help you create a first impression that sticks.

Why Do Some Men Prefer Older Women?

Men are often attracted to older women because dating them can be a more enjoyable experience. There's plenty of reasons, and explains why there are so many cubs out there:

Emotional maturity: With age comes experience. Older women tend to be more emotionally mature. This allows for deeper conversations and a stronger emotional connection.
Confidence: Older women often exude confidence. This confidence and sense of security can remove pettiness and jealousy from the dating equation.
Better communication: Mature women know what they want. They don't need to play games and aren't afraid to be straightforward when chatting with other singles. This means less time spent on drama and more time building a genuine connection.

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Dating apps can feel overwhelming, but that might be because you're not sure where to start. Flirtini is 1 million users strong and growing every day! Our hassle-free, straightforward app attracts people who want to skip the games and start building meaningful connections. With a diverse and vibrant community, you'll find all kinds of users— including milfs and cougars in your area.

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Violetta

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Nikky

28+

Los Angeles

Let's talk gadgets and galaxies over a cup of coffee.

Interests

💻 Tech
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27+

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Adventure awaits🧗‍♀️

Interests

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28+

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Interests

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26+

Miami

Love a good laugh?😂

Interests

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📺 TV Show
🍜 Foodie
📸 Photography

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29+

Seattle

🌱 Plant mom seeking plant dad.

Interests

🌱 Gardening
🥾 Hiking
🍜 Foodie
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Olivia

30+

Boston

Wine lover 🍷 and bookworm 📚.

Interests

🍷 Wine
📚 Reading
🍽️ Restaurants
✍️ Writing

Leah

27+

San Diego

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Interests

🌲 Hiking
🚣‍♀️ Kayaking
📸 Photography
🍜 Foodie

Maya

27+

New York

Yoga master and meditation guru.

Interests

🧘‍♀️ Yoga
🧘‍♂️ Meditation
📸 Photography
🍜 Foodie

Nicola

28+

New York

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Interests

🧘‍♀️ Yoga
🧘‍♂️ Meditation
📸 Photography
🍜 Foodie

Frequently asked questions

What dating app has cougars?

If you want to meet a cougar or a MILF, there are apps designed to connect cubs and cougars together. An app like Flirtini is designed for both dating and hookups, while other cougar dating apps are designed with one or the other in mind.

How do I meet a middle aged woman?

You can meet middle-aged women both online and offline. Offline, consider attending community events, joining special interest groups, or visiting local bars and restaurants. Dating apps can help you fast-track your way to meeting older women by telling you who's single and how close they are to you.

How to flirt with older women?

If there's only two things: be confident and genuine. Older women like confident guys who can be confident but also genuine at the same time. You can start with a compliment and stay attentive in learning about her and her life.

Can a younger man-older woman relationship work?

Of course! It is possible for a cougar or milf to be with a younger man. In fact, this dynamic tends to lead to something fun and magical. The key is to value open communication to see if both partners share similar values, interests, and goals.

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