Experts of Flirtini: Charisse Cooke

Charisse Cooke is a London-based MNCPS-accredited psychotherapist, online educator (with 120K+ followers), author of "The Attachment Solution" book, and resident expert at Flirtini, specializing in relationships, dating, and sex.

With a degree in psychology and postgraduate training in Addiction Psychology, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), she brings 20+ years of experience in relationship therapy and has logged 5,000+ clinical hours in private practice.

Driven by a mission to transform how we understand love, Charisse blends clinical expertise with real-world insights to help people break unhealthy patterns and build secure, passionate relationships.

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Therapist Charisse Cooke says mornings are the perfect time for sex. “The feel-good hormones that flood our system are healthier than caffeine and also longer lasting.” (‘12 Morning Habits That'll Make You Energised For The Day’, HUFFPOST) 

“Relationship tests are not really fair because they don’t take into account context, the situation, personality, or another persons intentions and motivations,” says sex and relationships psychologist Charisse Cooke. (‘A Therapist Explains the Problem With ‘Orange Peel Theory’ Boyfriend Tests’, VICE)

"People often confuse compatibility with being the same," says relationship psychotherapist Charisse Cooke. "It’s often the differences in relationships that can cause problems and conflict. So we may imagine someone having the same interests as us protects us from misunderstandings or disagreements." (‘This Is The One Thing We Get Wrong When Looking For A Partner’, REFINARY29)